Social orientation is a description of adjustment mechanism of Chinese people in their daily life. It represents the approaches that Chinese people interact with the environment in their life circle with emphasis on the harmony relationship that individuals established and maintained with the environment, especially the social environment, evolving from obedience, cooperation to integration. One of its features is the importance of “guanxi” (relation in English expression) in Chinese culture and the daily life of Chinese people. In traditional Chinese society, “guanxi” is the way people define themselves. More importantly, in the process of social interaction, relationship between one and the other determines the way they treat each other. Relational determinism argues that the rules, manners and co-dependence pattern of both sides treating each other are not the same in different types of relationship, and even the emotional consequences generated by interaction show significant difference. Based on the theories mentioned above and literature review of VFR tourism, the paper proposed that the understanding of VFR tourism should be based on the view of social relation. From this perspective, some basic theories about VFR tourism were redefined, including the concept of VFR tourist, the host, and VFR tourism type. Based on these theories, this article constructed the interaction mechanism of VFR tourists and their hosts from the perspective of social relation. Under this mechanism, there are three types of social interaction processes under three different relationship situations:(1)under the emotional relationship, the host treats the tourists warmly and actively, which follows the principal of requirement;(2)under the instrumental relationship, the host treats the tourists appropriately, which follows the principal of “renqing”;(3)under the mixed relationships, the host treats the tourists passively, which follows the principal of fairness. The future VFR tourism study should follow this research idea: leading in from holistic perspective, analyzing with process theory, and summarizing with teleology, which may contribute to the further development of VFR tourism.